Music can make or break a wedding reception. Music can bring all your family and guests to tears. Music will move the whole room. Pick your wedding music for your first dance, last dance, dance with dad, grooms dance with mom......those songs should hold special meaning to the bride and groom. Try not to micro-manage your music for the reception, what you might love to hear all evening, will drive family and friend out of the room. It is better to pick music types, years of music or just let the band/DJ play it by ear and go with the flow.